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Practice listening and talking: talk with your grandchildren about school, friends, and
how they feel about things.
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Respect your grandchildren. If you talk to your grandchildren as you do your peers, they
will be more likely to tell you when things are right and/or wrong in their life.
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Praise your grandchildren for doing things right. Praise builds a child's confidence and
reinforces communication. Unkind words tear children down and teach them that they just
aren't good enough.
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Children are never too old to be told they are loved. Saying and hearing "I love
you" is important at any age.
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your undivided attention when your grandchildren want to talk to you. Don't read, watch
TV, fall asleep or make yourself busy with other tasks.
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routines for bedtime, meals and chores. Routines will help your grandchildren feel safe,
and let them know your expectations.
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Remind them of your rules. Just saying no is not enough. Younger children often need
reminders.
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